How Do You See Life After Divorce?
If you are contemplating separation, then it is possible you will have envisaged how your future will look and feel having concluded your divorce.
You may not be aware of your options or have even considered there are different ways to approaching how you separate but if you wish your future to be as peaceful as you wish for, it is worth considering not just the divorce but how you go about achieving it.
You will hear family lawyers talk about achieving amicable resolution, but have you considered what that means?
Putting your children first will affect the family, for the rest of their lives and yours and it is worth considering at the outset, choosing the collaborative process with a collaboratively trained lawyer.
A crucial aspect of the collaborative process is the preparation of an anchor statement. This enables both parties to consider what is important to them and how they see their future following divorce.
Such a process invites both parties to consider future events in their children’s lives such as graduation ceremonies and marriages.
How would you like your child to remember their graduation ceremony? Would they like their parents to attend together without acrimony?
How do you see your children’s wedding?
If you are looking to achieve an amicable resolution and want to know more about the collaborative process, then please contact James Belderbos who is a family solicitor based in Oakham.
James is a solicitor, trained collaborative lawyer and mediator. To understand your options, where you stand in relation to the law and begin to start the process of achieving peace of mind please contact us on 01572 490 660 to arrange a meeting.