Divorce lawyers & divorce solicitors

Caring about you and your family’s future

How do you choose the right advisor?

When it comes to delicate family matters, it’s vital you choose the right solicitor to guide you to the best solution for you and where relevant, your children. You want to be listened to, you need to be understood, and you want the best advice and efficient service.


So how do you choose? There are a wide range of specialist family law firms and some very experienced and talented lawyers in general solicitors’ practices. So there’s lots of choice. Here’s our six-step guide on how to find the best specialist family lawyer for you.

The experienced family law specialists

Every family and relationship is unique, which is why we provide personalised legal solutions to suit your specific circumstances.

Belderbos Solicitors, based in Rutland, is a dedicated family law firm, solely focused on helping individuals navigate relationship issues, financial matters, and child arrangements.

Whether you’re facing a divorce, separation, or considering a pre-nuptial or post-nuptial agreement, we’ll listen to your needs and work towards the best possible outcome for you, your finances, and your children.

If children are involved, we specialise in child arrangement matters, helping you establish where they will live and how time is shared between parents after separation.

Family law disputes can be highly emotional and complex. As experienced family law specialists, we provide clear, compassionate advice to help you make informed decisions with confidence and peace of mind. We care about you and your family’s future.

We are members Resolution

It's very easy when emotions run high for people to do and say unkind things that have a long-lasting impact and only make matters worse. Anger and fear will often lead to confrontation in the family law courts and all the cost and stress that can involve. There is another, better way.

Together with around 6,500 other family lawyers and professionals, we are members of an organisation called Resolution. Resolution members are committed to resolving family disputes constructively and we follow a Code of Practice that promotes a non-confrontational approach to family problems. Resolution encourages solutions that consider the needs of your whole family and are particularly focused on the best interests of the children involved.

Today, more than four out of five divorce cases will not end up in court. Indeed, the family law courts actively encourage people to resolve issues in a non-confrontational way. The many benefits of doing so include:


  • avoid the stress of going to court

  • help to avoid rifts developing between the parties

  • reduce time and cost

  • improve future communication and relationships

  • a much higher success rate in reaching agreement

Our highly experienced and qualified team family law specialists can help you avoid court. Then you will complete a divorce or separation without the cost, stress and confrontation typically experienced if using traditional court process. We’ll enable you to make child arrangements in the very best interests of your child or children. If you’re getting married, just married or cohabiting, our team will make sure you and your spouse or partner reach a practical agreement that suits you both.


In some family matters, of course, court is unavoidable. Both parties need to commit to an out-of-court approach when a relationship breaks down, and this is not always possible. If litigation is the path you must take, we will represent you robustly in court, too.

Whether it’s court or an out-of-court approach, such as mediation, you can trust Belderbos Solicitors to help you resolve your relationship and family matters. We are your experienced specialists in family law.

  • Choose a Specialist in Family LawJust as you wouldn’t see a GP for a heart condition, you need a solicitor who deals with family law cases daily and understands the complexities involved.
  • Ensure a Good Working RelationshipYour solicitor should listen carefully, communicate clearly, and provide firm but fair guidance when needed.
  • Check for Resolution Membership – Solicitors who are members of Resolution are committed to resolving disputes in a constructive, non-confrontational way, helping to keep stress and legal costs down.
  • Court Experience is Crucial – If your case is likely to be contentious, choose a solicitor with strong court experience who understands how judges approach family law cases.
  • Look for Mediation Expertise – A solicitor with mediation training can help guide you through the process and improve the chances of reaching an agreement without going to court.
  • Assess Efficiency Early On – Inefficiency leads to unnecessary delays and higher legal fees. Pay attention to how your initial enquiries are handled and don’t hesitate to raise any concerns.

What Our Clients Say

James has been acting for my sister with her divorce. I was present at the first meeting and was impressed and pleased with the way he got her to open up and talk to him in a way that I have seldom seen her do. James has been very firm and honest with my sister throughout the process, guiding her to make difficult decisions, and acting in an empathic and professional manner at all times. I would be very happy to recommend James to anyone going through a similar situation.

Ms P, Leicestershire

Belderbos Solicitors is ready to help

What Our Clients Say

James has been acting for my sister with her divorce. I was present at the first meeting and was impressed and pleased with the way he got her to open up and talk to him in a way that I have seldom seen her do. James has been very firm and honest with my sister throughout the process, guiding her to make difficult decisions, and acting in an empathic and professional manner at all times. I would be very happy to recommend James to anyone going through a similar situation.

Ms P, Leicestershire

James was recommended to me when I was new to the area and looking for a good lawyer to help me with my divorce which can be a painful process to go through.

For me in particular, this is true. It was necessary for me to end my marriage of 45 years which is the biggest step I have undertaken in my entire life but was absolutely right. At last, like some sort of chrysalis I am emerging to become the butterfly I always was. Throughout a difficult divorce James Belderbos offered both wise and succinct advice together with support. My gratitude is infinite. It is reassuring to know there are solicitors practicing who take their role seriously and professionally. James Belderbos is one.

JW of Mountsorrel

James was recommended to me when I was new to the area and looking for a good lawyer to help me with my divorce which can be a painful process to go through.

Not only was James extremely attentive to accuracy and detail, he showed compassion and kindness (a trait not often associated with lawyers!) and steered me towards reaching a satisfactory result with my divorce.

Ms B, Nottinghamshire

Our Full Range Of Family Law Services

Divorce

Whether you need guidance on child arrangements, financial matters, court applications, or out-of-court solutions, our expert divorce solicitors are here to help. Select the services that best meet your needs and let us support you through every step of the process.

Separation

Legal advice is recommended when you separate from your partner, especially when children are involved. Talk to our our family law experts for advice on separation, whether you’re married or a cohabiting couple.

Nuptial Agreements

Whether you're preparing for marriage or looking to secure financial clarity in your existing partnership, our experienced family law team is here to help you protect your assets and ensure peace of mind for the future.

Cohabitation

Whether you’re facing separation, considering a separation deed, or moving in together as a cohabiting couple, our experienced family law team is here to protect your rights and guide you through every step.

Children

Expert legal support for all aspects of child arrangements, from court applications to financial orders, ensuring the best outcomes for your family's future.

Out of Court Solutions

Explore tailored out-of-court solutions like mediation, hybrid mediation, collaborative law, or early neutral evaluation to resolve family disputes amicably and avoid the stress and cost of court.

Domestic Abuse

Immediate court orders and non-molestation injunctions can shield you from domestic abuse, harassment, and other threats. Our expert legal team is here to guide you through every step.