A resolution in your best interests
Together with around 6,500 other family lawyers and professionals, we are members of an organisation called Resolution. Resolution members are committed to resolving family disputes in a constructive way and we follow a Code of Practice that promotes a non-confrontational approach to family problems. Resolution encourages solutions that consider the needs of the whole family and are particularly focused on the best interests of the children involved.
Today, more than four out of five divorce cases will not end up in court. Indeed, the Family Court now actively encourages people to resolve issues in a non-adversarial way. The many benefits of doing so include:
At Belderbos Solicitors, our highly experienced and qualified team are specialists in helping you to avoid court and complete a divorce or separation without the cost, stress and confrontation.
We can help you avoid a courtroom if you’re facing any of the following situations:
Concerned about difficulties in your relationship
You may want our advice when you are experiencing difficulties in your relationship. Relationships can be strained for all sorts of reasons, such as financial matters, children leaving home, issues with your wider family or simply that your feelings for each other have changed.
In the initial stages, we caution against any formal involvement and instead guide you to the appropriate people who may be able to help, such as Relate. Often we see clients at this stage who just want an overview of the legal aspects of separation, and a short meeting with us may help to address that.
Of course, the situation may have developed beyond that and you want advice on how to move on from where you are currently. Whatever your concerns about your relationship, you can talk to us in confidence and get professional advice on the options open to you.
Considering divorce
You must apply to the Family Court for a final order, which used to be called a decree absolute, to end your marriage, but you needn’t spend more valuable time and money on court over and above the necessary admin. At the same time, the ‘no fault divorce’ legislation introduced in 2022 has made it quicker and easier to file for and complete divorce proceedings, and the new rules encourage a non-confrontational resolution.
If you are looking for a more dignified divorce, where all parties meet to find a mutually agreeable outcome, the collaborative law process could be for you. As a specialist in this area, we can tell you more about the process and the benefits for both you and your family.
Wanting to ensure continued contact with your children
Contact with children can break down as a result of separation and/or divorce. Or, you may already be separated and have enjoyed regular contact so far but this has now faltered. Issues with children when parents split up can be traumatic and often the court feels like the only option. Our advice is that there are achievable alternatives outside of a courthouse.
We will listen to you and work with you and your ex-partner calmly to explore every avenue for a resolution that doesn’t require the law courts’ involvement. Of course, if an out-of-court solution isn’t possible, we can advise you about the steps that can be taken.
Supporting a family member through divorce
You may have a family member going through a divorce and you want to understand more about it and how you can best support them. You might be worried about how it will impact on them and on the family. Whatever your questions and your role, we have extensive experience to help you and perhaps put your mind at ease.
Whatever you are facing, start with us
With our calm, knowledgeable advice, you will have answers that help you to make informed decisions, without worrying about things unnecessarily. We’ll use our extensive experience to tailor a solution that works hard to achieve the best outcome for you and your family.
We have talked here about some of the situations we can help you with to resolve outside of court. Now, let’s consider the different ways you and your ex-partner can together plan a more collaborative, less confrontational way forward.